affair
Pluralaffairs
- 1
- 2A usually secret romantic or sexual relationship in which at least one person already has another partner.
He confessed to an affair while his wife was working overseas.
Their affair ended once people at the office started to talk.
UsageWe say have an affair with someone. A love affair can be any romantic relationship, not only a secret one.
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- 3A matter or event that someone talks about in a general way, without giving the details.
Like saying 'that whole thing' when you don't want to explain it fully.
The whole affair was over before anyone really understood what had happened.
Moving to the new office turned out to be a messy affair.
UsageUsually with a describing word: a messy affair, the whole affair. With a name, it can mean a notable incident or scandal.
Similarevent, incident, occurrence, episode, happening
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- 4
- 5An object that someone points to or mentions without naming it exactly.
The machine was a strange affair of wires, gears, and blinking lights.
He pulled out a little affair made of brass and glass.
UsageUsually with describing words: a strange affair, an affair of rope and wood.
Similarthing, contraption
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Less common meanings
- 6The person someone is having a love or sexual relationship with when one of them is married to someone else.
His affair turned out to be a coworker from the downtown office.
She introduced her affair to friends as merely an old acquaintance.
UsageUsually my affair, his affair. You have an affair, but you meet or see your affair (the person).
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- 7A small fight between armed forces, smaller than a full battle.
Like a brief scuffle that never grows into a real fight.
Only a few soldiers were hurt in the small affair near the river.
The border affair lasted barely an hour before both sides pulled back.
Similarskirmish, engagement, action, clash
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- 8An old slang word for the private parts of the body.
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Origin
It comes from Old French afaire, meaning 'situation', built from a- plus faire ('to do'), which goes back to Latin facere ('to do').
Checked 6 Nov 2026 · 6 facts
- Affair comes from Old French afaire. en.wikipedia.org
- Afaire is a noun meaning, among other things, 'situation' or 'event'; 'to do' describes its underlying phrase a faire. en.wiktionary.org
- Afaire was formed from a- plus faire. en.wiktionary.org
- Old French faire means 'to do'. en.wiktionary.org
- Faire descends from Latin facere. en.wiktionary.org
- Latin facere means 'to do'. en.wiktionary.org