cope
Noun pluralcopes (some meanings)
Pluralcopes (some meanings)
- 1To deal effectively with a problem or hardship, managing it well enough to carry on, especially when it is difficult.
Like a small boat riding out a storm instead of capsizing.
Many families struggle to cope when a parent falls seriously ill.
After the flood, residents coped as best they could with limited supplies.
UsageUsually cope with something (cope with stress), but it also stands alone: struggle to cope.
- 2A self-deluding belief or coping mechanism that someone holds onto in order to endure a situation with no real hope.
Like Aesop's fox calling the grapes sour because it couldn't reach them.
Insisting the exam was unfair after failing it is classic cope.
Fans dismissed the optimistic forecast as cope from a sinking team.
UsageOften just cope or classic cope, said to dismiss someone's excuse.
Similardenial, rationalization
Note
Internet slang that turns the verb into an accusation: calling a belief a cope says it is comfort passing itself off as reasoning. It circulates in incel circles, where even going to the gym or white supremacy can be waved away as "just another cope."
Checked 2 Nov 2026 · 2 facts
- Some incels describe white supremacy as just another cope. en.wiktionary.org
- Going to the gym is described as a cope in incel discourse. en.wiktionary.org
- 3Slang: a dismissive or mocking exclamation telling someone to deal with their problem or loss themselves.
He complained about the cold office again, and she said, "Cope," without looking up.
You don't like the new policy? Cope.
Less common meanings
- 4A covering piece set on top of a weather-exposed wall, usually of metal, masonry, or stone, and sloped to carry off water.
Like the flashing along a roof's edge that channels water away from what's underneath.
A metal cope protected the parapet from years of driving rain.
Masons replaced the cracked copes that had let water seep into the wall.
Note
Builders care most about the slope. The capping on a freestanding or parapet wall is weathered to a single or double fall so that rain runs clear of the wall face rather than soaking into it. The finished capping is also called coping, and laying it is its matching verb. Stone and masonry are usual, but a metal cope does the same job.
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- Wall coping can slope in one direction or in two directions. en.wikipedia.org
- Coping protects freestanding and parapet walls by shedding rainwater clear of the wall below. brick.org.uk
- The protective top layer of a wall is called coping. en.wiktionary.org
- The corresponding verb cope means to cover a structure with coping. en.wiktionary.org
- Stone, masonry and metal are usual materials for a cope. en.wiktionary.org
- 5A full-length, loosely fitting cloak that a priest, deacon, or bishop wears to preside at services other than the Mass.
Like the ceremonial robes a judge or graduate wears only on formal occasions.
The priest fastened his cope before leading the evening service.
Two deacons in matching copes flanked the altar during Vespers.
Note
A vestment word from Medieval Latin cāpa, "cape." That makes it a doublet of cap, cape and chape, one Latin word that entered English several times. The cope is a semicircular mantle, open at the front and fastened across the chest. Gilbert Burnet counts 160 priests "all in their Copes," and in Oscar Wilde's The Picture of Dorian Gray Dorian owns one of crimson silk and gold-thread damask.
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- The vestment word derives from Medieval Latin cāpa, meaning cape. en.wiktionary.org
- Cope, cap, cape and chape are doublets deriving through different routes from the same Latin word. en.wiktionary.org
- A cope is semicircular. metmuseum.org
- A cope opens at the front and fastens across the chest. en.wikipedia.org
- Gilbert Burnet describes 160 priests and uses the exact words 'all in their Copes'. en.wiktionary.org
- Oscar Wilde wrote The Picture of Dorian Gray. gutenberg.org
- In the novel, Dorian possesses a cope of crimson silk and gold-thread damask. gutenberg.org
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- 7To shape the end of a molding or other piece to match the profile of the piece it meets, giving a tight joint, usually at an inside corner in place of a miter.
Skilled finishers cope the joint so the two pieces meet without a visible gap.
The carpenter coped the baseboard so it fit tightly in the inside corner.
Note
A woodworker's sense, and the one that keeps the Old French "cut" closest to the surface. The end of a molding or workpiece is cut to the angle and profile its neighbor needs, so the two meet at a corner without an open seam. Keep it apart from the mason's capping verb: a coped joint has been cut, but a coped wall has been covered.
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- The woodworking verb belongs to the etymology traced through Middle English to Old French coper/couper, meaning ‘to strike, to cut’. en.wiktionary.org
- Coping shapes a molding’s end to fit the adjoining piece’s contours closely. en.wikipedia.org
- Coping a wall means covering its top, distinct from cutting a coped joint. en.wikipedia.org
- 8To curve or bend into an arch; to bow.
Oppositestraighten
Note
A verb made from the noun. The vestment and the vault of the sky both arch, and to cope in this sense is to take that shape, bending or bowing over.
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- The arching verb derives from the noun cope, rather than the Old French cutting verb. en.wiktionary.org
- The vestment has a curved form. gutenberg.org
- 9To meet, encounter, or have dealings with someone, especially as an opponent in a contest.
I love to cope him in these sullen fits.
c. 1598, William Shakespeare, “As You Like It”Host coped with host, dire was the din of war.
1708, John Philips, CyderNote
Shakespeare uses it with a direct object for meeting someone face to face. In As You Like It the Duke loves "to cope him in these sullen fits," meaning to engage the gloomy Jaques in talk, while in Troilus and Cressida a warrior "coped Hector in the battle." By John Philips's Cyder (1708) it takes with: "Host coped with host." The encounter may be a conversation or a fight, but it never means managing a difficulty.
- 10To silence someone, or prevent them from speaking out.
Note
The muzzled ferret turned into a figure of speech. Thomas Dekker's Match Me in London (1631) makes the link plain with "your lips coap'd like a Ferret." John Eachard's Mr. Hobbs's State of Nature Considered (1672) puts cop'd beside muzzled and gagged.
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- The ferret-muzzling sense was applied figuratively to human speech. archive.org
- Thomas Dekker wrote Match Me in London, first published in 1631. emed.folger.edu
- The play contains the exact quoted words. archive.org
- John Eachard wrote Mr. Hobbs's State of Nature Considered, first published in 1672. nul.nagoya-u.ac.jp
- Eachard's work places cop'd alongside words meaning muzzled and gagged. en.wiktionary.org
- 11To bargain for something; to buy it.
Note
A dead trading word with its own origin: Middle Dutch copen, cognate with Dutch kopen and German kaufen. English borrowed it as a verb of bargaining and buying and later let it go.
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- The bargaining and buying verb has a separate origin in Middle Dutch copen and is cognate with Dutch kopen and German kaufen. en.wiktionary.org
- English borrowed the word with bargaining and buying meanings, which subsequently became obsolete. en.wiktionary.org
- 12To exchange or barter one thing for another.
[The Patron] Will cope with thee in reasonable wise; That if the living yerely doo arise To fortie pound, that then his yongest sonne Shall twentie have, and twentie thou hast wonne.
1591, “Prosopopoia. Or Mother Hubberds Tale.”, in Complaints. Containing Sundrie Small Poemes of the Worlds Vanitie.Note
This trading verb came into English from Middle Dutch copen, kin to Dutch kopen and German kaufen. It shares nothing but its spelling with the modern 'deal with' verb. It took with for the other party: in Edmund Spenser's Mother Hubberds Tale (1591) a patron 'will cope with thee in reasonable wise', splitting a living's forty pounds. It sits beside the 'bargain for, buy' sense.
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- The trading verb derives from Middle Dutch copen and is cognate with Dutch kopen and German kaufen. en.wiktionary.org
- The modern 'deal with' verb has a separate etymology. en.wiktionary.org
- Edmund Spenser wrote Mother Hubberds Tale, first published in 1591. celm.folger.edu
- The passage uses 'cope with' for bargaining with another party; the patron is the subject of the priest's prediction, not its speaker. luminarium.org
- The proposed bargain divides a living's annual forty pounds into two shares of twenty pounds. luminarium.org
- The exchange sense belongs with the 'bargain for, buy' sense. en.wiktionary.org
- 13To make return for something; to requite or repay it.
Three thousand ducats due unto the Jew, / We freely cope your courteous pains withal.
c. 1596, William Shakespeare, “The Merchant of Venice”Note
The construction is what trips readers. In Shakespeare's The Merchant of Venice, three thousand ducats are offered with "We freely cope your courteous pains withal." The thing being repaid is the object, and withal refers back to the payment.
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- In Shakespeare's The Merchant of Venice, Bassanio offers Portia, disguised as Balthazar, three thousand ducats using the quoted words. folger.edu
- 'Your courteous pains', the service being repaid, is the direct object of 'cope'. folger.edu
- 14To sew or tie shut the mouth of a ferret used to hunt rabbits.
His nimble ferrets must now become pioners for their master who coupes them, lest they should grow too fat to endure labour.
1631, Richard Brathwaite, WhimziesThe use of this word is confined to warreners, who are said to 'cope' their ferrets, when they sew or tie up their mouths, to prevent them from biting rabbits, when they are used to drive them from their holes.
1825, Robert Forby, The Vocabulary of East-AngliaNote
A warrener's word of unknown origin. Robert Forby's Vocabulary of East-Anglia (1830) says its use was confined to warreners. They sewed or tied a ferret's mouth so it could drive rabbits from their holes without biting them. Richard Brathwaite's Whimzies (1631) spells it coupes.
Checked 2 Nov 2026 · 6 facts
- The ferret-related sense has an unknown origin. en.wiktionary.org
- Forby says the word was confined to warreners. archive.org
- Forby describes sewing or tying ferrets' mouths to prevent biting while they drove rabbits from their holes. en.wiktionary.org
- Richard Brathwaite's Whimzies was published in 1631. famineanddearth.exeter.ac.uk
- The original title page of Whimzies gives 1631. famineanddearth.exeter.ac.uk
- Whimzies uses the spelling coupes. en.wiktionary.org
- 15A covering spread over something, such as a canopy, mantle, or, in literary use, the vault of the sky.
- 16The top half of a two-part sand casting mold, lying above the parting line.
- 17To clip or trim the beak or talons of a bird, especially a bird of prey.
- 18A payment formerly owed to the local landowner from the lead produced by mines in Derbyshire, England.
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Origins
Old French coper or couper ("to strike, to cut") became Middle English coupen, which gives the modern word.
Medieval Latin cāpa ("cape") gave Middle English cope. Cap, cape, and chape are doublets of it.
Middle Dutch copen was borrowed into Middle English as copen. Dutch kopen and German kaufen are cognates.