mate
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- 1A companion, colleague, or partner; someone with whom a place, task, or experience is shared, as on a ship or in a classroom.
Her cabin mate on the cruise turned out to be a marine biologist.
He still exchanges letters with his old army mates.
UsageOften joined to a noun: classmate, shipmate, roommate, or written apart: cabin mate.
Similarfellow
Note
At its root, a mate is someone you eat with. Harriet W. Daly's Digging, Squatting, and Pioneering Life (1887) still captures that spirit: a mate was a mate, "share and share alike."
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- Harriet W. Daly wrote Digging, Squatting, and Pioneering Life in the Northern Territory of South Australia. archive.org
- The book was first published in 1887, as dated on its title page. archive.org
- Daly's narrative describes mates with the quoted words share and share alike. archive.org
- 2Of animals, to have sex in order to produce young, with or without a named partner.
Deer mate in the fall, and the fawns arrive in late spring.
Captive pandas are famously reluctant to mate.
UsageA partner follows with: the female mates with the male.
Similarbreed, copulate, couple
Note
Couple is its synonym. The neutral tone of mate is what makes it the usual choice in descriptions of animal behavior, and a transitive use drops the preposition altogether, as in the bull mated the cow.
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- 4A friend, usually of the same sex, in informal British and Commonwealth usage.
Dave's an old mate of mine from school.
She went on holiday with her mates from university.
UsageCommon in a mate of mine and my best mate. In formal writing, friend is safer.
Similarfriend, buddy, chum, pal, companion
Oppositeenemy
Note
Friends in Britain, Ireland, Australia, New Zealand and South Africa are commonly mates: a few mates at the pub, a best mate from school. Because it usually describes someone of the same sex, a man's "my mate" normally means a friend, not a partner.
- 5A breeding partner; the animal with which another pairs to produce offspring.
Each spring the male returns to the same nest to find a mate.
Penguins may keep the same mate for many breeding seasons.
Similarpartner
Note
Used chiefly of animals other than humans, so applying it to people borrows the language of the field guide, often with a wink. Richard P. Grant does exactly that in The Guardian (2015), lining up "birds and animals and stockbrokers and nurses" as creatures signaling their suitability as a mate. The same idea becomes a verb in the "copulate" sense.
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- Richard P. Grant wrote the cited Guardian article in 2015. theguardian.com
- Grant uses the exact quoted list while describing signalling suitability as a mate. theguardian.com
- 6Of parts or objects, to fit or join together closely; to fit one part onto another, as a connector or a shuttle on its carrier aircraft.
The cabinet doors mate so closely that the seam almost disappears.
When the two halves mate correctly, the latch clicks shut.
Similarfit, join, connect, engage, meet
Note
The parts themselves are the subject here: the pieces mate, the halves mate. When a person does the fitting, the verb turns transitive, as in mating a plug to its socket. It promises more than match or pair does: the parts actually fit together, rather than merely corresponding.
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- Mating parts can have clearance between their surfaces; mating does not necessarily eliminate every gap. di1vc2liilbw2.cloudfront.net
- 7Used as a friendly form of address to a stranger, typically a man of about the speaker's own age; chiefly British.
Sorry, mate, is this seat taken?
Easy there, mate. No harm done.
Similarbuddy
Note
It is aimed at a stranger, typically a man of about the speaker's age. It carries the same regional and colloquial coloring as the "friend" sense, so it suits the street, not the letterhead.
- 8An officer on a merchant ship ranking below the captain, especially the first mate, who is second in command.
When the captain fell ill, the mate brought the vessel safely into port.
The captain rarely came on deck, so the first mate ran the ship from day to day.
Note
Without a number, "the mate" aboard can simply mean the first mate. That officer ranks next below the master and is traditionally responsible for cargo stowage, the deck crew, and the daily running of the ship. With the definite article, it reads almost as a job title: the mate took the watch.
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- The unqualified term "the mate" can mean the chief or first mate. gutenberg.org
- The first mate ranks immediately below the captain or master. en.wiktionary.org
- The chief mate traditionally supervises cargo stowage. gutenberg.org
- The chief mate traditionally supervises the deck crew's work. gutenberg.org
- The chief mate traditionally supervises the ship's daily work. gutenberg.org
- 9Alternative spelling of maté: a South American tea-like drink made by soaking dried leaves of the yerba mate plant in hot water, or the plant itself.
He passed the gourd of mate around the table, topping it up from a thermos.
Mate has a grassy, slightly bitter flavor that many drinkers grow to love.
Note
This is the drink's original Spanish spelling; English writers often add an accent, maté, to keep it apart from the companion word, and otherwise context has to do the disambiguating. It counts like maté does. The drink is uncountable (a gourd of mate), but a single cup is countable (two mates). Less commonly, the word also names the traditional container, a small calabash.
Checked 31 Oct 2026 · 2 facts
- Mate is the Spanish spelling from which English maté derives. en.wiktionary.org
- The English accent distinguishes the drink's pronunciation from that of mate meaning a companion. en.wikipedia.org
Less common meanings
- 10One of a matching pair, or a person or thing that matches or equals another.
The antique dealer owned one silver candlestick and spent years hunting for its mate.
Only one of the two stone lions is in the museum, while its mate still guards a garden across town.
Similarmatch, partner, twin, companion, counterpart
Note
An older, loftier use, in which the word means an equal in rank or worth. Milton's Paradise Lost (1667) has "Ye knew me once no mate / For you," where Satan boasts that he once ranked above the angels he addresses. The same idea of equality, turned combative, drives the obsolete verb "to rival".
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- Mate historically means a match or equal. en.wiktionary.org
- John Milton wrote Paradise Lost. gutenberg.org
- Paradise Lost was first published in 1667. wwwe.lib.cam.ac.uk
- The quoted words occur in Paradise Lost; Satan speaks them. en.wikisource.org
- In context, Satan claims that he formerly ranked above the angels he addresses. He means that they were no match for him. en.wikisource.org
- The obsolete verb mate means to rival or oppose as an equal. en.wiktionary.org
- 11In naval ranks, a noncommissioned officer, or the subordinate who assists one, as in boatswain's mate or gunner's mate.
He rose from ordinary seaman to boatswain's mate within two years.
Her father retired from the navy as a chief gunner's mate after twenty years.
Note
Here the word is the second half of a title: Boatswain's Mate, Gunner's Mate, Sailmaker's Mate. The possessive names the specialist being assisted, and the whole phrase is the rating, often capitalized. It belongs to naval ratings. That keeps it apart from the merchant-ship officer, where the word stands on its own.
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- Boatswain's Mate, Gunner's Mate and Sailmaker's Mate are naval titles. en.wiktionary.org
- These mates assisted the specialists named by the possessives. govinfo.gov
- These occupational titles are naval ratings; a rating denotes an occupational specialty rather than a rank. dvidshub.net
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- 13An assistant to a skilled tradesperson, as in plumber's mate or gasfitter's mate; sometimes an apprentice.
She took a job as a bricklayer's mate to learn the trade from the ground up.
The gasfitter sent his mate back to the van for a longer wrench.
UsageAfter a possessive naming the trade: plumber's mate, bricklayer's mate.
Similarassistant, helper, apprentice, hand
Note
The trades use the same pattern as the navy. The word follows a possessive naming the skilled worker, as in plumber's mate or gasfitter's mate, just as the naval ratings do. A mate in this sense helps or learns rather than holds the qualification, which is why the word can shade into apprentice.
- 14To join someone in marriage, or to match a person with a marriage partner.
The matchmaker promised to mate the young widow to a kind, steady husband.
Their friends always said the quiet couple were well mated, since they shared nearly every interest.
Similarmarry, wed, match, pair
Note
In Shakespeare's Timon of Athens, Timon uses it in the passive: "If she be mated with an equal husband?" That shape is the natural home of this sense, because someone else usually does the matching. The word equal in the line shows how close it stays to the "equal" noun, where a mate is one's match.
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- Timon speaks the line in Shakespeare's Timon of Athens, Act I, scene i. It ends with a question mark. gutenberg.org
- The quoted construction is passive. gutenberg.org
- The noun mate can mean a match or an equal. en.wiktionary.org
- 15To associate or team up with others as companions, comrades, partners, or the like.
Indeed, some cases of devotion that were met with were quite touching; and very often to all appearances the pairs were not always mated from the same class of society.
1887, Harriet W. Daly, DiggingSimilarbond, fraternize, associate
Note
A verb formed from the companion noun, meaning to come together as partners. Harriet W. Daly's Digging, Squatting, and Pioneering Life (1887) uses it in the passive of pairs "not always mated from the same class of society." There it describes close comradeship between men from different social classes.
Checked 31 Oct 2026 · 5 facts
- The verb derives from the companion noun. whichenglish.com
- The verb can mean to come together as partners or companions. en.wiktionary.org
- Harriet W. Daly wrote Digging, Squatting, and Pioneering Life, first published in 1887. archive.org
- The book contains the quoted words in a passive construction. archive.org
- The passage describes comradeship between male diggers from different social classes; it does not establish pairing for life. archive.org
- 16Short for checkmate: in chess, a position in which a player's king is attacked and cannot escape capture, which ends the game.
White announced mate in three moves.
A back-rank mate caught her completely off guard.
UsageIn set phrases: mate in three, back-rank mate, smothered mate.
Note
The form is unrelated to the companion word. It came through Middle French mater from Old French mat, which already meant "checkmate," and behind that lies Persian šâh mât. Like checkmate, it can be countable (a mate) or uncountable.
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- The chess word has a different origin from mate meaning companion. en.wiktionary.org
- The chess word came through Middle French mater and Old French mat, meaning checkmate, ultimately from Persian šâh mât. en.wiktionary.org
- 17Short for checkmate: in chess, to attack the opposing king so that it has no way to escape, winning the game.
She sacrificed a knight in order to mate on the back rank.
A queen and king can mate a bare king from almost any position.
Note
The verb is transitive and takes the king or the opponent as its object: a queen and king can mate a bare king. It inflects regularly (mates, mating, mated). Its spelling collides with the breeding and fitting verbs, but its origin is the chess term explained under the clipped noun.
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- A queen and king can checkmate a bare king. en.wikipedia.org
- The chess verb shares the historical origin described for the chess noun in s22. en.wiktionary.org
- 18To pit oneself against another as an equal; to rival or contend with.
There is no passion in the mind of man so weak but it mates and masters the fear of death.
1625, Francis [Bacon], “Of Death”Note
An obsolete verb of rivalry that turns up in early modern prose and drama. Francis Bacon's essay "Of Death" (1612; enlarged 1625) pairs it with master: every passion "mates and masters the fear of death." In Henry VIII, by Shakespeare and Fletcher, a speaker dares "mate a sounder man than Surrey." Read it as "stand up to as an equal."
Checked 31 Oct 2026 · 6 facts
- An obsolete rivalry sense occurs in early modern prose and drama and means to oppose someone as an equal. en.wiktionary.org
- Francis Bacon wrote “Of Death,” which contains the quoted pairing of mates and masters. gutenberg.org
- First published in 1612; enlarged in 1625. en.wikipedia.org
- Henry VIII was written by Shakespeare and Fletcher. folgerpedia.folger.edu
- The quoted fragment occurs in Henry VIII; its speaker is Wolsey, addressing Surrey. folger.edu
- “Stand up to as an equal” accurately paraphrases the rivalry sense. en.wiktionary.org
- 19To confuse; to confound.
I think you are all mated, or stark mad.
c. 1594, William Shakespeare, “The Comedie of Errors”Note
A separate word that happens to share the spelling. It comes from Middle English maten, "to overpower," and Old French mater, "to kill," and its meaning softened from defeating someone to leaving them bewildered. Shakespeare's Comedy of Errors pairs it with madness: "all mated, or stark mad." In older texts, do not mistake it for the companion word or the chess verb.
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- The confusion verb has a separate etymology from the companion word and the chess verb. en.wiktionary.org
- The verb derives from Middle English maten, meaning “to overpower.” en.wiktionary.org
- Its Middle English ancestor derives from Old French mater, meaning “to kill.” en.wiktionary.org
- Shakespeare's Comedy of Errors contains the quoted phrase; the Duke speaks it in Act V, scene i. folger.edu
- 20To pair one animal with another on purpose, the way breeders do, so that the two produce offspring.
Zoos sometimes mate endangered cats with partners from other zoos to widen the gene pool.
The breeder mated her champion collie with a dog from a different bloodline.
UsageA breeder mates one animal with another: mate a mare with a stallion.
Note
When the animals themselves are the subject, as in birds that mate in spring, there is no object, and the verb means pairing up to breed or has the plain "copulate" meaning.
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Origins
From Middle English 'mate', borrowed from Middle Low German 'mate' ('messmate'). It ultimately comes from Proto-Germanic *gamatô, from parts meaning 'together' and 'food': so a mate was originally someone who shared food, linked to Old English 'mete' ('food').
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- English 'mate' comes from Middle English 'mate', borrowed from Middle Low German 'mate', meaning 'messmate'. en.wiktionary.org
- The word ultimately derives from Proto-Germanic *gamatô. en.wiktionary.org
- The reconstructed word combines elements meaning 'together' and 'food', literally denoting someone who shares food. en.wiktionary.org
- The food element is related to Old English 'mete', meaning 'food'. en.wiktionary.org
Persian شاه مات (šâh mât) gave the Old French noun mat ("checkmate"). From it came Middle French mater, the source of the Middle English verb maten.
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- Persian شاه مات (šâh mât) is the source of the Old French noun mat, meaning "checkmate". en.wiktionary.org
- Middle French mater derives from Old French mat. en.wiktionary.org
- Middle English maten derives from Middle French mater. en.wiktionary.org
Vulgar Latin *mattō, whose origin is unclear, became Old French mater ("to kill"), and Middle English took this as maten ("to overpower").
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- Old French mater, meaning 'to kill', derives from Vulgar Latin *mattō. en.wiktionary.org
- The origin of Vulgar Latin *mattō is unclear. en.wiktionary.org
- Middle English maten, meaning 'to overpower', derives from Old French mater. en.wiktionary.org
From American Spanish mate, the name of both the drink and its drinking vessel, from Quechua mati, the calabash gourd it is drunk from.
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 3 facts
- English mate comes from American Spanish mate. en.wikipedia.org
- American Spanish mate names both the drink and its drinking vessel. en.wikipedia.org
- Spanish mate derives from Quechua mati, referring to the calabash gourd used as the drinking vessel. es.wikipedia.org