obsess
Formsobsesses, obsessing, obsessed
- 1To be completely preoccupied with a single topic or emotion, returning to it again and again.
Many new parents obsess about every small sound their baby makes.
He had become obsessed with finding the perfect answer.
Note
This sense lives mostly in the passive. The preoccupied person is the subject, and with introduces the fixation: some people are obsessed with sports, and The Economist's "Magician's brain" (2014) shows a Newton obsessed with alchemy. The active verb appears too, sometimes with on, as when Nigel Harris in RAIL (2023) accuses a ministry of obsessing on cost. For the chattier pattern, see the colloquial "obsess over".
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- 3To take over and dominate the thoughts of a person, leaving room for little else.
Revenge obsessed the old sailor until his final days.
A single failure can obsess an ambitious mind for years.
Similarconsume, haunt, preoccupy, possess
Note
Here the idea is the subject and the person is the object: thoughts of her obsess my every waking moment. It is the active form behind the passive "obsessed with." The Latin root obsideō meant "sit before" or "besiege," and this sense keeps that picture of a thought camped around a mind. Possess and assess come from the same sedeō, "I sit."
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Origin
From Latin obsessus, the perfect passive participle of obsideō ("to sit on or in, remain, besiege"), which comes from ob ("before") plus sedeō ("I sit"); it is related to words like session, assess, and possess.