relax
Formsrelaxes, relaxing, relaxed
- 1To rest and recover from stress or tension.
We relax on the porch every evening after dinner.
He needs to relax before the big interview tomorrow.
Similarunwind
Note
Nothing has to be done to the subject here; people simply relax. The verb pairs naturally with a place (relax in the living room) or with a method introduced by by plus an -ing verb (relax by listening to music). Unwind and chill out are close substitutes, and chill out is the more casual of the two. When something does the calming to someone else, English switches to the causative use: amusement relaxes the mind.
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- 4To cause something to become less severe or tense.
Stretching exercises relax the muscles after a hard workout.
A few kind words relaxed the tension in the negotiation.
Similarease, loosen, relieve, soften
Note
Abstract objects are typical: one relaxes discipline, or relaxes one's attention or endeavors. With attention and effort the verb means slackening, and it often carries a warning, since to relax your attention is to let it lapse. The image is still the loosened rope, carried over to things held firm by will rather than by force.
- 5To ease rules, codes, or restrictions so that they become more lenient.
The government relaxed travel restrictions after infection rates dropped.
Schools agreed to relax their uniform rules for the summer term.
Similarease, loosen, soften, moderate
Note
A word of statutes and courts: legislatures and judges relax laws, doctrines and restrictions. Jonathan Swift wrote in 1713 that the statute of mortmain "was at several times relaxed by the legislature." In this register the verb is often passive, with the rule as subject and the lawmaker introduced by by. It suggests loosening a rule rather than abolishing it.
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- 8To cause something to become loose.
He relaxed the reins to let the horse slow down.
Gentle stretches relax the stiff tendons in the legs.
Note
The root of every other sense: Latin relaxāre, built from re- "back" and laxāre "loosen", from laxus "loose". Here the loosening is literal: a rope, a cord, the muscles or sinews, anything that has been held tight. Milton's Paradise Lost (1667) uses it of a body giving way in fear: "Horror […] all his joynts relax'd." The calmer, gentler senses of the word still carry this image of slackened tension.
Less common meaning
- 9To relieve someone from constipation by loosening or opening the bowels.
Apothecaries sold syrups that claimed to relax the bowels overnight.
The old physician used senna to relax a patient bound up for days.
Similarloosen
Note
Old medical English, now dated: a remedy relaxes the bowels when it purges them. The construction is fixed, with the medicine or aperient as subject and the bowels as object. In modern writing the phrase can read oddly, as though the gut were being soothed. Outside historical or deliberately old-fashioned prose, it is clearer to say a remedy loosens the bowels or relieves constipation.
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Origin
From Middle English relaxen, via Old French relaxer, from Latin relaxāre ("relax, loosen, open"), formed from re- ("back") plus laxāre ("loosen"), which derives from laxus ("loose, free").