whom
Often confused with who
- 1The formal object form of the relative 'who', used when the person is the object of a verb or preposition.
Mr. Patel, whom you met last week, will chair the meeting.
We have five staff, two of whom work from home.
UsageUse it after quantity words: most of whom (not
incorrect: most of who). In speech, who or no pronoun is usual: the man I met.Similarwho
- 2'The person or people whom', with no noun before it; archaic except in set formulas such as 'to whom it may concern'.
To whom it may concern: this is to confirm Ms. Ali's employment.
He wrote 'to whom it may concern' and left it at reception.
Note
A fused relative carries its own antecedent: to whom it may concern means "to the person whom it may concern."
- 3Used in questions to ask what or which person, people or group (such as a team or band) is the object of a verb or preposition.
Whom did the committee finally choose as its new chair?
Reporters wanted to know whom the senator had met during the trip.
UsageUsed for the object, especially after a preposition: to whom, with whom. In everyday questions most people say who: Who did you call?
Practice
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Origin
This comes from Middle English "whom," from Old English "hwām," the dative case of the word for "who, what" (Proto-Germanic *hwaz). It is related to Scots "wham," German "wem," Danish "hvem," and Swedish "vem."
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 7 facts
- English whom comes from Middle English whom and Old English hwām. en.wiktionary.org
- Old English hwām is the dative form of the pronoun meaning “who, what.” en.wiktionary.org
- The pronoun ultimately derives from Proto-Germanic *hwaz. en.wiktionary.org
- Whom is related to Scots wham. en.wiktionary.org
- Whom is related to German wem. en.wiktionary.org
- Whom is related to Danish hvem through their shared Germanic ancestry. en.wiktionary.org
- Whom is related to Swedish vem through their shared Germanic ancestry. en.wiktionary.org