lady
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- 1A woman; often used as a polite or respectful word for any woman.
The lady at the front desk answered all of our questions.
Two ladies sat reading in the corner of the café.
Similarwoman
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A courteous stand-in for woman, and also the word children use for any grown woman they do not know by name. In adult speech it softens a reference to a stranger, as in asking staff to direct this lady to another department, where woman would sound abrupt.
- 2Being a woman; used attributively before a noun to indicate female sex.
A lady novelist delivered the keynote address at the festival.
They requested a lady attendant for the fitting room.
UsageBefore a job title, with the plural on the second noun: lady doctors.
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Placed before a job title, it marks the holder as a woman: lady doctor, lady novelist. It behaves like an adjective, so the plural falls on the second noun, giving lady doctors rather than ladies doctors. James Holledge's Sex and the Australian Teenager (1964) uses lady doctor this way, singling out the doctor's sex as relevant to the task.
Checked 30 Oct 2026 · 1 fact
- James Holledge wrote Sex and the Australian Teenager. library.unimelb.edu.au
- 3A woman of high social class or refined upbringing, or one who holds authority.
Born into wealth, she was every inch a lady.
In the novel, the ladies of the county would not receive the farmer's daughter in their drawing rooms.
Similargentlewoman, noblewoman, aristocrat
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Servants addressed such a woman as my lady, and the reply "Yes, my lady" holds a whole social order in three words: rank on one side, service on the other. That deference is what separates this sense from the everyday polite use, where lady is simply courteous and implies nothing about birth or authority.
Checked 30 Oct 2026 · 2 facts
- Servants used “my lady” to address women of rank. gutenberg.org
- “Yes, my lady” is attested as a servant's reply. gutenberg.org
- 4A title for a woman of rank: a peeress below duchess, the wife or widow of a knight, baronet or lord, or the daughter of a duke, marquess or earl.
After the wedding, she was known throughout the county as Lady Whitmore.
Lady Carlisle accompanied her husband to the opening ceremony.
UsageWritten with a capital before a name: Lady Whitmore.
- 5An informal or brusque way of addressing a woman, especially a stranger.
Lady, you can't park your car here during rush hour.
Watch it, lady, that's my foot you're standing on!
UsageUsed alone to address someone: Hey, lady! Don't confuse it with the polite ladies and gentlemen.
Similarmiss
- 6The woman someone is married to or going out with; a sweetheart.
He introduced his lady to all of his old college friends.
The old sailor wrote long letters to his lady back home.
UsageMost often with a possessive: his lady, my lady. It can sound fond or playful.
Similarsweetheart, girlfriend, partner, wife, girl
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The informal label hides a long literary history. Romeo, watching Juliet, says "It is my lady, O it is my love", and Oliver Goldsmith's The Vicar of Wakefield (1766) has "the gentleman and his lady" enter a room.
Checked 2 Nov 2026 · 5 facts
- Romeo says the quoted words while watching Juliet. shakespeare.mit.edu
- The quotation's wording is correct, with editorial punctuation differences. shakespeare.mit.edu
- Oliver Goldsmith wrote The Vicar of Wakefield. gutenberg.org
- The Vicar of Wakefield was first published in 1766. archive.org
- The novel describes the gentleman and his wife entering, using the quoted wording apart from punctuation. gutenberg.org
- 7A woman with authority over a household or estate; the female counterpart of lord.
On her father's death she became the lady of the estate.
Several ladies governed their territories as fully as any lord.
UsageCommon in the lady of the house and the lady of the manor.
Similarmistress
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The counterpart of lord carries power as well as gender. When Lear says "We make thee Lady" over forests, rivers and meadows, he is handing over land to rule. James Russell Lowell, in 1848, keeps the couple together in "lord or lady of high degree". Both words go back to bread: Old English hlǣfdīge, the lady, was literally the loaf-kneader of the household.
Checked 30 Oct 2026 · 6 facts
- Lady can denote a woman with authority, corresponding to lord. en.wikipedia.org
- Lear says the quoted words while granting authority over land described as forests, rivers and meadows. shakespeare.mit.edu
- The Lowell poem containing the quotation was first published in 1848. d.lib.rochester.edu
- Lowell's The Vision of Sir Launfal reads "lord or lady of high degree", with "degree" rather than "decree". d.lib.rochester.edu
- Both lord and lady have etymologies involving bread. en.wikipedia.org
- Old English hlǣfdīge meant mistress of a household and is etymologically bread-kneader. en.wiktionary.org
- 8A public toilet set aside for women, usually called the ladies.
She's gone to the ladies; she'll be back in a minute.
There was a long queue for the ladies at the interval.
Note
British speakers reach for it almost always with "the" and in the plural: someone is in the ladies, queuing for the ladies, or has just popped to the ladies. Although the form is plural, it names a single room and needs no noun after it, which is why it sits so easily in quick, everyday sentences about stepping away for a minute.
Less common meanings
- 9A woman to whom a knight pledged his service and homage, or more broadly one to whom a person is devoted.
The young squire dedicated every victory to his lady.
Minstrels sang of knights who crossed kingdoms for their ladies.
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Courtly love gave the word its most devoted meaning: the woman a knight served and in whose name he fought. Edmund Waller's "Instructions to a Painter" has the soldier take "new valor from the Ladies' eyes", capturing the whole convention in one line. Outside romance, the sense loosens to anyone to whom a person is devoted.
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- Courtly love involved a knight's devotion and service to his lady, expressed through heroic deeds. en.wikipedia.org
- Edmund Waller's Instructions to a Painter describes a soldier taking new courage from ladies' eyes; the opened edition spells the word valour. gutenberg.org
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- 11The queen in a pack of playing cards or in chess.
Holding a pair of ladies, she pushed half her chips into the middle of the table and waited for him to fold.
On the street corner, a hustler shuffled three cards and dared passersby to find the lady.
UsageCard-table talk: a pair of ladies. In rules and formal writing, say queen.
Similarqueen
- 12A woman whose conduct is courteous, dignified and thoughtful toward others, regardless of her class or upbringing.
She never raised her voice or spoke ill of anyone; she was a lady through and through.
She never went to finishing school, but she remembered every nurse's name and thanked every porter, and everyone on the ward agreed she was a real lady.
UsageOften praise in a real lady, a perfect lady, a lady through and through.
- 13In Christian use, a reverent title for Mary, mother of Jesus, found especially in the form Our Lady.
The cathedral's oldest window shows Our Lady holding the infant Jesus.
The choir closed the service with an old hymn to Our Lady.
UsageOften used in church and shrine names: Our Lady of + a place.
SimilarMadonna
- 14Alternative form of Lady: in Wicca and other Neopagan religions, the Goddess, often honored alongside the Lord.
- 15To address a woman using the word or title "lady".
- 16A five-pound banknote, called this because 'Lady Godiva' rhymes with 'fiver.'
- 17The gastric mill of a lobster, the hard, chalky stomach plates that grind food, fancied to resemble a seated woman.
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Origin
The Old English word hlǣfdīġe meant "mistress of a household" or "wife of a lord". It was built from hlāf ("bread, loaf") and dīġe ("kneader"), so it literally meant "bread-kneader", and it became Middle English lady. The word is connected with lord but has no link to lad.
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 6 facts
- Old English hlǣfdīġe meant mistress of a household or wife of a lord. en.wiktionary.org
- The word combines hlāf, meaning bread or loaf, with an element dīġe meaning kneader. orca.cardiff.ac.uk
- Its literal etymological meaning was bread-kneader. en.wiktionary.org
- Old English hlǣfdīġe developed into Middle English lady. en.wiktionary.org
- Lady and lord are etymologically connected. en.wikipedia.org
- Lady is etymologically unrelated to lad. en.wiktionary.org