bitch
Pluralbitches
Verbbitches, bitching, bitched
Pluralbitches
Formsbitches, bitching, bitched
- 1A despicable, disagreeable, or aggressive person, most often a woman.
He bitterly called his landlord a bitch after the eviction notice arrived.
Their team captain is a real bitch whenever someone misses practice.
UsageOften in such a bitch or a real bitch; frequently heard as sexist.
Note
The everyday insult, and the one most people mean by the word. Robert Burton, in The Anatomy of Melancholy, lines it up with strumpet and arrant whore, a reminder of how close it once stood to the promiscuity slur.
Checked 3 Nov 2026 · 2 facts
- Robert Burton's The Anatomy of Melancholy places bitch alongside strumpet and arrant whore. gutenberg.org
- The word historically had a sense referring to a promiscuous woman. en.wiktionary.org
- 2To complain, especially often or angrily, or to criticize someone spitefully.
He'll bitch about the weather for an hour if you let him.
She spent the whole meeting bitching about her coworkers.
UsageUse bitch about for the person or thing complained of, and bitch at for the person you complain to.
Similarcomplain, gripe, moan, snipe
Note
Complaining at length, often with more irritation than any real wish for a fix. Sabrina Carpenter’s “Slim Pickins” (2024) reverses the familiar pairing, putting the moaning before the bitching.
- 3A degrading slang term for a woman.
Critics of the song said that calling a woman a bitch in every verse was degrading, not edgy.
Her complaint said the manager had called the women on his team bitches in front of clients.
Note
Vulgar slang in which the word stops judging a woman's character and simply stands in for "woman." It runs through hip-hop lyrics such as Tupac Shakur's "Hit 'Em Up" (1996) and Curtis Jackson's "If I Can't" (2003). There it often takes a possessive, as in my bitches, which presents women as belonging to the speaker.
Checked 3 Nov 2026 · 4 facts
- Hit 'Em Up is a Tupac Shakur song released in 1996. en.wikipedia.org
- If I Can't is a 2003 song credited to Curtis Jackson, who performs as 50 Cent. en.wiktionary.org
- Hit 'Em Up uses bitch to refer to a woman. en.wiktionary.org
- If I Can't uses bitches for women and includes the possessive phrase my bitches. en.wiktionary.org
- 4A female dog, or the female of another canine animal such as a wolf or fox.
The breeder kept the bitch away from the males during her season.
A well-fed bitch can raise a large litter without trouble.
UsageOutside dog breeding, people usually say female dog, because the insults have taken the word over.
Note
Among breeders and show judges it is the neutral partner of dog, as in LIFE's 1953 “both dog and bitch.” In that setting it simply names a female, often one that has just had a litter, with no insult intended. It is the oldest meaning, from Old English biċċe, and outside breeding and showing it can now sound dated.
- 5Something very difficult, harsh, or unpleasant.
Karma is a bitch, as the old saying goes.
The freezing, sleepless night made the climb a bitch.
UsageCommon in karma's a bitch, life's a bitch and the pattern a bitch of a day.
Similarnightmare, pain, killer, bear
Note
Here the word personifies hardship, as if bad luck or consequences meant you harm. It also comes in the frame a bitch of a, as when Stephen Fry's The Liar (1991) describes “an incredible bitch of a row.”
Checked 3 Nov 2026 · 2 facts
- Stephen Fry wrote The Liar, first published in 1991. en.wikipedia.org
- The Liar contains the exact phrase “an incredible bitch of a row,” illustrating the construction “a bitch of a.” en.wiktionary.org
- 6An insulting term for a man regarded as weak or timid, or for anyone seen as submissive or controlled by another person.
Inside, the weaker men quickly became someone's bitch.
She turned her assistant into her personal bitch, demanding favors at all hours.
Similarslave, lackey, doormat, flunky
Note
Two uses meet here. One is a general sneer at someone who gives way; the other is a prison usage for a man coerced into sex. The possessive frame, someone's bitch or your bitch, carries the idea of being owned, and Family Guy played it for laughs in 1999, with servants singing that they would gladly be Peter's bitch. The bare taunt don't be a bitch is about backbone instead.
Checked 30 Oct 2026 · 2 facts
- Family Guy used the line in 1999. thetvdb.com
- The servants sing “we'll gladly be your bitch” in “Peter, Peter, Caviar Eater,” first aired September 23, 1999. drodd.com
- 7A friend, addressed with playful and affectionate vulgarity.
She greeted her oldest friend with a cheerful 'there's my bitch!'
Love you, bitch. Text me the moment you land.
Note
The insult turned inside out, so that the vulgarity becomes the affection. Friends use it in greetings and sign-offs, as in what's up, bitch, and often with a possessive, as in my bitches. It stays vulgar and humorous, so it works only where both sides take it as a joke, unlike the "despicable person" meaning.
- 8A woman admired for being confident, tough, or impressive, often in the phrases bad bitch and boss bitch.
She runs marathons, raises three kids, and still DJs on weekends: a certified bad bitch.
After the promotion, her friends raised their glasses to the office's newest boss bitch.
UsageA compliment among friends, but from a stranger or at work it is likely to offend.
Note
Praise built out of an insult: the word that sneers at a spiteful, aggressive woman here admires one, usually inside the set phrases bad bitch and boss bitch.
- 9A degrading term for a woman treated as a casual sexual partner.
He bragged that she was just another bitch he'd hooked up with and would never call again.
In the song, he brags about having a different bitch in his bed every night.
Note
Unlike the bare slang for “woman”, this use gives the woman a role: a casual sexual partner and nothing more, usually with a possessive (his bitch). Its force is misogynistic, because it reduces the woman to her availability.
- 10A place or situation, used as crude, casual slang for wherever one happens to be.
Everybody in this bitch was on their feet when the band came out.
The DJ grabbed the mic and yelled, "Y'all ready to turn up in this bitch?"
UsageAlmost always with this: in this bitch, up in this bitch, outta this bitch.
Note
It adds emphasis and swagger rather than meaning, and it points at the room or event the speaker is in. It usually comes as this bitch, after in, up in or out of, as in everybody in this bitch or let's get out of this bitch. It is vulgar, informal slang and suits only loud, casual talk.
Less common meanings
- 11A complaint, especially one that seems unjustified or petty.
Her biggest bitch about the new office was the lack of parking.
He always has some bitch about the referees after a loss.
UsageOften with a possessive and about: her biggest bitch about the office.
Similargripe, complaint, grumble, moan, grievance
Note
The noun that goes with the complaining verb: a gripe, usually framed as petty or unfair. A speaker has a bitch about something, as in her biggest bitch about the new office or some bitch about the referees after a loss. It is colloquial and vulgar, a ruder cousin of complaint or gripe.
- 12A woman regarded as sexually promiscuous; a slut or whore.
Note
An insult made by transfer: Old English biċċe meant a female dog, and here the animal word is turned on a woman's sexual conduct. A modern reader who meets it in an old text should check whether it charges promiscuity or general nastiness, which is the disagreeable-person meaning.
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 2 facts
- Old English biċċe meant a female dog. en.wiktionary.org
- The sexual insult developed by metaphorical transfer from the female-dog meaning. en.wikipedia.org
- 13An openly or stereotypically gay man, used contemptuously.
The crowd jeered and branded the openly gay contestant a bitch.
In that locker room, 'bitch' was the slur they saved for the one boy everyone knew was gay.
Note
Close to the “weak man” insult but aimed at a man seen as obviously gay. It turns up in LGBTQ slang, but it stays derogatory there, and whether it lands as abuse or as banter depends entirely on who says it to whom. For anyone outside that circle, it is simply a homophobic slur.
Checked 30 Oct 2026 · 1 fact
- An obviously gay man is a documented derogatory sense in LGBTQ slang. en.wiktionary.org
- 14To spoil or ruin something, as a mistake or mishap can wreck a plan, a performance, or a career.
"Shy Smile didn't pay off." "I know. The jockey bitched it. So what?"
1956, Ian Fleming, Diamonds are Forever'You're a Franco-maniac…You're thought to be a French agent…That's what's bitching your career!'
1924, Ford Madox Ford, Some Do Not… (Parade's End)Similarruin, wreck, scupper, sink, spoil
Note
The odd one out among the verbs: it takes an object, the thing that got ruined, such as a career or a race. That object is what separates it from the complaining meaning. Ford Madox Ford (1924) and Ian Fleming (1956) both put it in the mouths of exasperated characters (“The jockey bitched it”).
Checked 3 Nov 2026 · 4 facts
- Ford Madox Ford used this sense in Some Do Not..., first published in 1924. gutenberg.ca
- Ford puts the word in the dialogue of an exasperated character, Sylvia. gutenberg.ca
- Ian Fleming used this sense in Diamonds Are Forever, first published in 1956. gutenberg.ca
- The quotation is exact and occurs in character dialogue in Fleming's novel; the speaker is Shady Tree. gutenberg.ca
- 15The queen in card games, especially the queen of spades in hearts, or the queen in chess.
- 16A man, addressed playfully; a jocular variant of 'dog' in the sense of fellow.
- 17Tea, the brewed drink.
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Origin
From Middle English biche, from Old English biċċe, going back through Proto-West Germanic *bikkjā to Proto-Germanic *bikjǭ ("female dog"), with cognates like Norwegian bikkje ("dog, bitch"). It is related to bicker.
Checked 31 Oct 2026 · 3 facts
- The word descends through Middle English biche, Old English biċċe, Proto-West Germanic *bikkjā and Proto-Germanic *bikjǭ, meaning female dog. en.wiktionary.org
- Norwegian bikkje is cognate with bitch and means dog or female dog. en.wiktionary.org
- Bitch is etymologically related to bicker. en.wiktionary.org