gay
Noun pluralgays
Pluralgays
- 1Attracted to people of the same sex. It is sometimes used just about men.
My aunt is gay, and she lives with her wife.
She realized she was gay during her last year of school.
UsageSay a gay man or gay people.
Similarhomosexual, lesbian, queer
Oppositestraight, heterosexual
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- 2Not straight, or part of a sexual or gender minority.
The center helps gay teens, including those who are bi or trans.
The gay crowd at the festival included lesbian, bisexual, and trans people.
UsageQueer is clearer for this wide meaning.
Similarqueer
Oppositestraight, heterosexual
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- 3About, between, or meant for gay people, like a gay club or a gay couple.
They spent Friday night at a gay bar downtown.
He picked up a gay magazine at the newsstand.
Similarqueer
Oppositestraight, heterosexual
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- 4A person attracted to others of the same sex, especially a man.
Growing up in a small town, he didn't know any other gays.
The march drew thousands of gays and their allies.
Similarhomosexual
Oppositeheterosexual, straight
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- 5The quality of being homosexual.
She joked that the party needed a little more gay.
He never tried to hide the gay in his sense of style.
UsageSay play up the gay.
Similarhomosexuality, queerness
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Less common meanings
- 6Happy, full of fun, and lively.
The children were gay and laughing all through the picnic.
To think that only yesterday / I was cheerful, bright and gay
1972, Gilbert O'Sullivan, “Alone Again (Naturally)”Here, gay means happy, cheerful, and lively.UsageToday people say cheerful or merry.
Similarmerry, cheerful, jolly, lighthearted, blithe
Oppositesad, gloomy, somber, melancholy
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- 8Seeming to match ideas people have about how gay men look or act.
He thought the pink, feathery decor looked a little gay.
The bright, sparkly outfit struck them as very gay.
Similarcamp, flamboyant, effeminate
- 9Bright, colorful, and full of cheer.
Like a room full of balloons and bright colors.
The ballroom looked gay with streamers and colored lights.
Don we now our gay apparel.
1881, J. P. McCaskey (editor), “Deck the Hall”Here, gay means bright, colorful, and festive.Similarbright, colorful, festive, vivid, showy
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- 10In love with another person of the same sex.
She admitted she was completely gay for her best friend.
He has been gay for that singer since high school.
UsageSay gay for someone.
Similarsmitten, infatuated
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- 11Crazy about something in a joking way that fits gay stereotypes.
Like being so into something you sound like its number one fan.
After the cruise, he came back totally gay for fancy cocktails.
She's been gay for musical theater ever since that show.
UsageSay gay for a thing as a joke with friends.
Similarobsessed, crazy, mad, infatuated
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- 12Of an animal, tending to mate or pair with others of the same sex.
The zoo's two gay penguins hatched and raised a chick.
A few of the rams in the flock were gay, pairing only with other males.
Similarsame-sex, homosexual
Oppositeheterosexual
- 13To make people connect something with gay people.
- 14Quick in movement, or fast.
I went a gay shack, / For it started to rain.
1873, Gwordie Greenup, Yance a YearHere, gay means quick, so moving fast.We launched our canoe and were off at a gay clip for Hackettstown, where Mart had a married sister, and we were figuring on big eats.
1918, Hunter-trader-trapperHere, gay means quick, so moving at a fast speed.Similarbrisk, quick, fast, swift, rapid
Oppositeslow, leisurely, sluggish
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- 15To make a person, place, or event happier and more cheerful.
Gaying Things Up For Christmas. JESSIE TODD, Laboratory School, University of Chicago. EVERY schoolroom in America is gayed up for Christmas.
1952, American ChildhoodHere, gaying up and gayed up mean making things bright and cheerful.Similarcheer, brighten, enliven, gladden
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- 16Having many sexual partners, or working as a prostitute.
She imprudently forms the acquaintance of a "gay girl" living in the same street.
1898, John Mackinnon Robertson, G. Aston SingerHere, gay means having many sexual partners or working as a prostitute.Gay (common), loose, dissipated; a "gay woman" or "gay girl," a prostitute. "All gay," vide ALL GAY.
1889, Albert Barrère, Charles Godfrey LelandHere, gay means loose or sexually free, and a gay girl is a prostitute.Note
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- 18Large in number, size, or amount.
There were a gay bit of lace on it.
1881, Dixon, Craven DalesHere, gay means large or considerable, so a big piece of lace.A gay deal different to what I is noo.
1876, Richardson, Talk 1Here, gay means great, so a great deal different.Note
- 19A bright, colorful thing, like a picture or a flower.
At a stall soon Mary bote / A hume-book full ov gays.
1839, Charles Clark, John Noakes and Mary StylesHere, gays means bright, colorful pictures.I had no books to read, but plenty of gays to look at.
1892, P. H. Emerson, A Son of the FensHere, gays means bright, colorful pictures or things.Note
- 20A small pretty object used for decoration.
Look upon precepts in emblems, as they do to upon gays and pictures.
1692, Roger L’Estrange, FablesHere, gays means small pretty decorations or trinkets.Note
- 21Of an animal's tail, held high or curved over the back.
- 22In Pitman shorthand, the sign used for the 'g' sound.
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Origin
From Old French 'gai', meaning 'joyful, merry'. The meaning 'homosexual' grew out of older slang such as 'gay boy' and 'gay cat'.
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 3 facts
- Gay comes from Old French gai, meaning joyful or merry. en.wiktionary.org
- The homosexual sense is documented as early as the 1920s; its development cannot be confined to the 1930s. en.wikipedia.org
- The homosexual meaning developed from older sexual slang, including gay boy and gay cat. en.wikipedia.org