mistress
Pluralmistresses
Pluralmistresses
Formsmistresses, mistressing, mistressed
- 1
- 2A woman who is in charge of a home, people, or animals, or who owns them.
The horse followed its mistress around the field.
The dog ran straight back to its mistress when she whistled.
UsageSay mistress of the house or the dog's mistress, so the meaning is clear.
- 3A woman who is the one in control during sexual role-play.
In BDSM play, the mistress is the one who gives the orders.
In their game, he had to obey every command from his mistress.
Similardominatrix
Less common meanings
- 4A woman whom someone loves and is devoted to, like a sweetheart.
In the old song, a young man sings to his mistress under her window.
he could not forbear putting his horse out of the way , and rode with his mistress behind him round about it
Can we date this quote?, Edward [Hyde, 1st] Earl of Clarendon, in The History of the Rebellion and Civil Wars in EnglandHere, mistress means the woman he loves, his sweetheart.Similarsweetheart, beloved, lady
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- 5A woman who works as a teacher.
Our art mistress showed us how to paint with watercolors.
The girls stood up when the mistress walked into the classroom.
UsageUsually with a subject: art mistress, music mistress.
Similarteacher
- 6An old, polite word used when speaking to a woman.
"Thank you, mistress," the boy said as she paid him for the apples.
"Yes, mistress, I will bring the water now," said the young servant.
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- 7A woman who is very good at something or has full control of it.
My grandmother is a mistress of the kitchen, and her bread is the best in town.
She became a mistress of the violin after years of practice.
UsageSay a mistress of something: a mistress of the violin.
Similarmaster, expert, virtuoso
Oppositenovice
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- 8Of a woman, to learn something until she is very good at it.
These films give a glimpse of women on the way to mistressing their own destiny.
2013, Andrea Khalil, North African Cinema in a Global Context: Through the Lens of DiasporaHere, mistressing means women learning to control something with great skill.Note
- 9To act as a mistress or take on her job, such as running a big house.
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- 11In the game of bowls, the small ball that players try to roll their balls close to.
Faith, keep a bachelor still, and go to bowls, sir, Follow your mistress there, and prick and save, sir; For other mistresses will make you a slave, sir
c. 1613, Thomas Middleton, William RowleyHere, mistress means the small ball in bowls that players aim at.She took a bowl, drew up her skirt with her left hand, and rolled the weighted ball with a deft motion. It lightly kissed the mistress and stopped a few inches away.
2001, Paul Hemenway Altrocchi, Most Greatly LivedNote
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Origin
From an Old French word that was the female form of “master.”
Checked 31 Oct 2026 · 1 fact
- Mistress derives from an Old French word that was the feminine of the word for master. en.wiktionary.org