tender
Verbtenders, tendering, tendered
Noun pluraltenders
Formstenders, tendering, tendered
Pluraltenders
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- 2Showing or expressing gentleness, affection, and kind feeling; of a scene, song, or story, gently moving and stirring soft emotions.
They shared a tender embrace before he boarded the train.
Her letters were full of tender words for the friends she had left behind.
UsageCommon in tender loving care, often shortened to TLC.
Similargentle, loving, affectionate, fond, warm
Note
Affection here often shades into indulgence. In Shakespeare's The Winter's Tale, those who are "so tender o'er his follies" are too soft on a man to do him any good. Said of a song or a film scene, it means one that stirs soft feelings. The King James Bible of 1611 supplies the fixed pairing tender mercy.
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- The quotation occurs in Shakespeare's The Winter's Tale and criticizes indulgence toward a man; Paulina addresses the lords about Leontes. folger.edu
- The King James Bible was first published in 1611. en.wikipedia.org
- The King James Bible contains the pairing tender mercy. en.wikisource.org
- 3Sensitive or painful when touched.
The doctor pressed the swollen joint, which was tender to the touch.
After the surgery, the area around the stitches remained tender for weeks.
UsageOften tender to the touch, and said of a body part rather than a whole person.
Similarsore, painful, sensitive
Note
Here the softness has become soreness: a bruise, a healing wound, a spot that hurts when pressed. Doctors ask whether a spot is tender when they press it, and a bruise can stay tender long after it fades.
- 4To offer or give something, especially in a formal manner.
He rose to tender his apologies to the assembled guests.
Officials may tender their resignations when a scandal breaks.
UsageMost often tender your resignation, or tender an apology. In everyday talk, offer is usual.
Similaroffer, submit, present, proffer
Oppositewithdraw
Note
Formal writing uses the verb for handing something over with ceremony, and its classic object is a resignation. Older usage tendered almost anything courteous. The 1864 letter to Mrs. Bixby, signed by Abraham Lincoln, tenders "the consolation that may be found in the thanks of the Republic." Motion Picture News in 1920 ran "Hank Mann Tenders You Holiday Greetings."
Checked 2 Nov 2026 · 3 facts
- The letter to Mrs. Bixby dates from 1864 and bears Abraham Lincoln's signature. tile.loc.gov
- The letter contains the quoted words about consolation and the Republic's thanks. hd.housedivided.dickinson.edu
- Motion Picture News printed the quoted holiday greeting in 1920. en.wiktionary.org
- 5A formal offer put forward for acceptance, especially a bid to supply goods, do work, or buy or sell something at a stated price.
The council reviewed every tender before awarding the contract.
Each tender had to be sealed and submitted by Friday afternoon.
UsageUsually submit a tender for a contract.
Similarbid, offer, proposal, quotation
Note
Contract law gives the word its sharpest edge. A tender usually answers an invitation and names a price, and once it is accepted it can form a binding agreement.
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- A tender normally responds to an invitation and includes a price. bankofengland.co.uk
- Acceptance of a tender can create a binding contract. assets.publishing.service.gov.uk
- 6A means of payment such as cash, a check, or a credit card.
The store accepts almost any tender, from contactless cards to cash.
Cash remains the most common tender at the weekend market.
UsageCommon in legal tender, money recognized by law as valid payment for debts.
Note
Money counts as a tender because it is what you hold out at the counter. In shop talk, the noun covers any form of payment, as when a customer whose card is declined is asked for "some other tender such as cash."
Checked 2 Nov 2026 · 2 facts
- The payment sense is connected etymologically with offering or holding something out. en.wikipedia.org
- The quoted wording occurs in an illustrative example about a declined credit card. en.wiktionary.org
- 7The inner flight muscle of poultry, a narrow strip lying beneath the breast.
A careful cook removes the tough tendon from the tender before cooking.
The tender cooks faster than the surrounding breast meat.
UsageUsually plural for the strips: chicken tenders.
Similartenderloin
Note
The name probably comes from the adjective, Latin tener, "soft, delicate", tying this cut to meat that is easily chewed, though it may be short for tenderloin. Anatomists call the same muscle the pectoralis minor, the inner of the bird's flight muscles.
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- The adjective tender ultimately derives from Latin tener, meaning soft or delicate. en.wiktionary.org
- The tender is the pectoralis minor, an inner flight muscle of poultry. extension.msstate.edu
- 8Young and inexperienced.
The apprentices were of tender years and needed close supervision.
At such a tender age, he could hardly grasp the consequences of his choice.
UsageMostly in at the tender age of + an age, and of tender years.
Note
Two set phrases carry nearly all its use. The first is at the tender age of, followed by the age itself. The second is of tender years, as in Graham Nash's "Teach Your Children" (1970). The law has borrowed the second: in 2001 an Illinois appeals court applied the tender years doctrine, under which a child younger than seven cannot be found contributorily negligent.
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 4 facts
- Graham Nash wrote "Teach Your Children", released in 1970. grahamnash.com
- "Teach Your Children" contains the phrase "of tender years". northshorechoral.org
- An Illinois appeals court applied the tender years doctrine in 2001. caselaw.findlaw.com
- The doctrine prevents children younger than seven from being found contributorily negligent. illinoiscourts.gov
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- 10A boat or ship that attends other vessels, supplying them or carrying people and goods between a larger ship and the shore.
The destroyer pulled alongside the tender to refuel and rearm.
A submarine tender anchored in the bay to service the returning boats.
Note
Naval usage names the tender by the ships it looks after: a submarine tender serves submarines, and a destroyer tender serves destroyers. It acts as a floating base, supplying fuel, ordnance and repairs to a group of smaller warships. The word also covers a much smaller craft, the launch that ferries passengers and stores between a moored ship and the shore.
- 11The car coupled behind a steam locomotive to carry its supply of fuel and water.
The locomotive's tender ran dry of water before reaching the next station.
Crews refilled the tender with coal at every major depot.
Note
Steam railroading spoke of the engine and tender as a pair: the locomotive did the work, and the car coupled behind it carried the coal and water. Reginald B. Fellows, writing in 1944, quotes an account of a turntable big enough "to turn the engine and tender at once." In Xavier Herbert's Capricornia (1938), a violent stop throws half the coal out of the tender.
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 4 facts
- A steam locomotive's tender was a coupled vehicle carrying its fuel and water. en.wikipedia.org
- Reginald B. Fellows's 1944 article quotes an account describing a turntable capable of turning the engine and tender together; the quoted wording is exact. en.wiktionary.org
- Xavier Herbert wrote Capricornia, first published in 1938. en.wikipedia.org
- Capricornia describes a stop so violent that half the coal comes out of the tender. en.wiktionary.org
- 12To put in a formal bid, offering to buy something or to supply goods or do work at a stated price.
Three local companies tendered for the contract to repave the main highway through town.
The city invited cleaning firms to tender for the contract at the new high school.
UsageUsually tender for a contract or for work.
Less common meanings
- 13Likely to cause grief or pain, and requiring delicate, careful handling.
The lawyer approached the tender matter of the inheritance with great care.
Her recent divorce was still a tender subject at family dinners.
UsageUsually of topics: a tender subject, a tender matter.
Similarsensitive, delicate, touchy, sore
Note
The pain sits in the topic, not in the person: a tender subject is one that hurts to raise and must be handled with care. Francis Bacon pairs it with "unpleasing" in his essay "Of Cunning".
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- Francis Bacon pairs 'tender' with 'unpleasing' in his essay 'Of Cunning'. en.wikisource.org
- 14A person who tends to or waits upon another.
Note
Here the word is not the soft one at all but tend plus the agent ending -er, a cousin of attender. The general person sense is archaic outside certain compounds. Yet the same formation still names things that attend something larger: the car behind a locomotive, the ship that serves a flotilla, the boat that runs to shore, and the diver's helper on deck.
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- This noun comes from tend plus -er and is comparable to attender. en.wiktionary.org
- The general person sense is archaic outside certain compounds; specialized personal senses also survive. en.wiktionary.org
- Tender names a car hauled behind a locomotive. en.wikipedia.org
- Tender names a ship supporting a flotilla. en.wikipedia.org
- Tender names a boat providing transport between a larger ship and shore. en.wikipedia.org
- Tender names a diver's helper at the surface. osha.gov
- 15Careful to keep something safe from harm or injury; solicitous of it.
The civil authority should be tender of the honour of God and religion.
a. 1694, John Tillotson, The Advantages of Religion to SocietiesNote
An obsolete use that usually takes of: one was tender of property, or tender of the honor of God, meaning anxious to keep it unharmed. Edmund Burke still writes "tender of property" in 1790, and John Tillotson wants civil authority to be tender of religion.
Checked 2 Nov 2026 · 4 facts
- Tender of something can mean careful to preserve it from injury. en.wiktionary.org
- Edmund Burke uses the exact phrase 'tender of property'. gutenberg.org
- Burke's quoted use occurs in a work first published in 1790. en.wikipedia.org
- John Tillotson advocates civil authority being tender of religion. en.wiktionary.org
- 16Kind concern, care, or regard shown toward another.
Stay, and breath awhile. Thou haſt redeem'd thy loſt opinion And ſhew'd thou makeſt ſome tender of my life In this faire reſcue thou haſt brought to mee.
c. 1597, William Shakespeare, “The First Part of Henry the Fourth,”Note
Shakespeare still uses the noun for care and regard, a meaning now obsolete. In Henry IV, Part 1, a rescued man tells his rescuer, "thou makest some tender of my life." The phrase looks exactly like the "offer" meaning, as in "make tender of her love," but here it means concern for a life, not an offer of one.
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 4 facts
- Shakespeare uses the noun tender to mean care or regard, including in the quoted Henry IV passage. en.wiktionary.org
- In Shakespeare's Henry IV, Part 1, King Henry speaks the quoted words to Prince Henry after the prince rescues him. gutenberg.org
- The phrase make tender of her love occurs with the meaning offer her love; Don Pedro says it in Much Ado About Nothing. gutenberg.org
- Tender in the Henry IV passage means concern for the king's life. gutenberg.org
- 17A member of a diving team who helps a diver during a dive but does not go underwater.
Like a pit-crew member who never drives but keeps the racer safe.
The tender paid out the umbilical as the diver descended toward the wreck.
Each diver depended on a tender stationed safely on the boat above.
Note
Divers call their surface partner a tender, or a dive tender. This is the person on deck who handles the diver's line and air supply, keeps up communications and watches the clock. Christoph Gelfand, in The New York Times in 2015, describes a scallop diver who has worked with the same tender for years. When OSHA cited a Broward company in 2022, its findings named the diver and the dive tender together.
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- A tender or dive tender assists the diver from the surface. app.leg.wa.gov
- The tender handles the diver's line and surface air umbilical. nepis.epa.gov
- The tender maintains communications with the diver. nepis.epa.gov
- The tender monitors the diver's underwater time. repository.library.noaa.gov
- Wiktionary records a 2015 New York Times article by Christoph Gelfand describing scallop diver Sewell's seven-year working partnership with tender Jason Simmons. en.wiktionary.org
- OSHA issued citations to Erosion Barrier Installations in 2022. dol.gov
- The cited company was identified as a Broward company. en.wiktionary.org
- The same OSHA citation addresses both the diver and the dive tender. dol.gov
- 18To work aboard a tender, the small support boat that attends and supplies a larger vessel.
During herring season, his crew tenders for the fleet, carrying each boat's catch back to the cannery.
Crews who tender on these support craft work long, demanding shifts.
- 19In a soft, gentle, and affectionate manner; tenderly.
He hummed the lullaby low and tender until his daughter finally fell asleep.
He held the newborn close and spoke soft and tender to her, as if she understood every word.
UsageMostly in songs and verse (love me tender). In ordinary writing, tenderly is usual.
Similargently, softly, lovingly, affectionately
Note
The adjective serves here as an adverb with no -ly ending, the way slow and loud can. Its best-known use is in Ken Darby's "Love Me Tender," performed by Elvis Presley in 1956, where the short form scans better than tenderly would.
- 20Dear and precious, and so arousing kind concern in others.
I love Valentine, Whose life's as tender to me as my soul!
c. 1590, William Shakespeare, “The Two Gentlemen of Verona”Note
In The Two Gentlemen of Verona, Valentine's life is "as tender to me as my soul": cherished and held dear, not gentle. The meaning is obsolete, and a modern reader will hear gentleness or soreness instead.
Checked 2 Nov 2026 · 2 facts
- In The Two Gentlemen of Verona, Sylvia describes Valentine's life using the quoted words. folger.edu
- Tender here means dear or precious, a sense marked obsolete. en.wiktionary.org
- 21To feel tenderly toward someone; to regard a person fondly and with care.
The angrie king hath banished me the court: And therefore as thou louest and tendrest me, Be thou my aduocate vnto these peeres.
1594, Christopher Marlow[e], The Troublesome Raigne and Lamentable Death of Edward the SecondAnd ſo good Capulet, which name I tender As dearely as my owne, be ſatisfied.
c. 1591, William Shakespeare, “The Tragedie of Romeo and Ivliet”Note
To tender someone was to cherish them, and the word sat comfortably beside love: Marlowe's Edward the Second has "as thou lovest and tendrest me." In Romeo and Juliet, a name is one "I tender As dearely as my owne." The trap is reading it as to offer. In Richard II, "tendering the precious safety" of a prince means cherishing that safety, not handing it over.
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 4 facts
- Tender could mean to cherish or regard someone fondly. en.wiktionary.org
- Christopher Marlowe's Edward the Second contains the quoted appeal linking love and tender; Queen Isabella addresses the younger Mortimer. gutenberg.org
- Romeo and Juliet contains the quoted wording about cherishing the Capulet name; this is the First Folio wording, spoken by Romeo. en.wiktionary.org
- In Richard II, tendering the prince's safety means cherishing it rather than offering it. upload.wikimedia.org
- 22To make something tender or delicate; to weaken it.
Note
The verb is rare now in most writing, but it lingers where fabric is handled. Around 1947, the packaging of Putnam Fadeless Dyes warns that boiling water "does tender some materials" and that wet silk is "very tender." Used this way, it means to weaken fibers so they give way.
Checked 2 Nov 2026 · 4 facts
- The Putnam Fadeless Dyes quotation is dated approximately 1947 and comes from a flyer packaged with granulated dye. en.wiktionary.org
- The instructions say that boiling water does tender some materials. en.wiktionary.org
- The instructions describe silk fibers as very tender when wet. en.wiktionary.org
- Tender in this textile context means to weaken the material. en.wiktionary.org
- 23Of a sailing vessel, inclined to heel over too easily when under sail.
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Origins
Latin tener, tenerum ("soft, delicate") gave Old French and Anglo-Norman tendre, and Middle English took it as tender.
From Middle English tender, formed from the adjective tender (see above).
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- The adverb tender derives from Middle English tender. en.wiktionary.org
- The Middle English adverb was formed from the adjective tender. en.wiktionary.org
From Middle English tendren, formed from the adjective tender (see above).
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- The verb tender meaning to make tender or regard fondly comes from Middle English tendren, derived from the adjective tender. en.wiktionary.org
It is the verb tend with the suffix -er, so "one who tends," formed like attender ("one who attends").
From Middle English tendren, from Old French tendre ("stretch out").
Checked 1 Nov 2026 · 2 facts
- Tender derives from Middle English tendren. en.wiktionary.org
- Middle English tendren derives from Old French tendre, meaning stretch out. en.wiktionary.org